Caroline Cusenza and Maggie Bennett were our midwives for our first child born December 1, 2013. I started out early on with them and they were absolutely wonderful. I especially liked how much time they spent just getting to know us. I am originally from Texas, so when I was back there over the summer, I saw my old OB/GYN and the difference was ghastly. I would wait an hour in the OB's office only to spend 5-10 minutes actually talking to her. With Maggie and Carol my husband and I spent over an hour with them at each visit, the room was cozy, and they answered all of my questions and went above and beyond to get me information when they didn't know something offhand.
Carol was the one who actually delivered my son. She was so supportive throughout the labor and gave the best back rubs! My son seemed to be stuck for a while, so she used a couple stretching techniques to loosen the ligaments in my hips and help bring him down. She also uses a water injection technique to alleviate back pain. (It burns like hell initially, but it was worth every second of the 45 minutes of back relief it gave me). Carol was at my house from 1 am when we called her over till 7pm the next day, the whole time she was talking me though the contractions, helping me focus my energy and relax my body, she even lit candles in my bedroom early on to set a calm mood for my husband to rest. The details are what make laboring at home so enjoyable and she really made it worth it for us.
I wound up getting an intrauterine infection a few days after delivery. Caroline came to my side in the ER, took me home and got my prescription filled so that my husband could stay by my side. Then Maggie came with us to our follow up appointment at Natividad. (Important note: The doctors I saw, both in the ER at CHOMP and Dr. Chandler at Natividad, stressed the fact that this had nothing to do with my home birth. They said it can happen to anyone and there is nothing you can do or not do to cause it. "It's just bad luck," as they put it.)
I did tear, so Caroline stitched me up and Maggie oversaw it. Now I am all healed and feeling great. It is comforting to know that Maggie has been practicing for over 35 years. She knew just by feeling how my baby was positioned inside me and how far down he was in the pelvis. Since my son's birth, she has offered me extensive advice on his skin problems and she still insists that I come in just to chat and make sure we are doing well.
I don't just think of these two beautiful women as my midwifes but as lifelong friends. The love and support these women gave my husband and I has been inspiring. I only hope I'll be lucky enough to find a team this great in Texas for the rest of my babies. read more