I engaged Jes Walsh as a post-partum doula last year when I was expecting my second son. Our first son was a really tricky baby, and I knew from experience that the weeks after the birth can be bewildering, exhausting and isolating, particularly when you don't have any family here in Berlin, and your partner has to go back to work.
Jes really saved our lives! Having her in our home, supporting me, my partner and our older son was the best decision we made that year, turning what could have been a fraught experience into the most calm, enjoyable and special time imaginable. She instinctively knew what I needed, whether that was to spirit the baby away for an hour while I napped; to play with our older son and make him feel really special, or to listen to me when I re-lived the birth over and over!
She's a really calm person to have around; funny when you need her to be, melting into the background when that's what you want, practical, unfussed, and a really, really good listener. Somehow, she always made me feel like I was doing great, so I felt supported in my own decisions, rather than having someone come in and tell me what to do. She was punctual, totally reliable, and very flexible, working around our needs. Our little son was really happy being with her; she's great with babies!
I had the same beleghebamme for both births, and for me, it made a huge difference, having someone there who could come to the house and support me in early labour, someone whose sole focus was me. I know they're not easy to find though, and having worked with her over several weeks, I think Jes would be exactly the person I would want at my side when those contractions start!
To be honest, I never normally write Yelp reviews, but a friend (someone to whom I'd recommended Jes; I really rave about her to everyone!) told me about this one-star review and I just had to write about my experience because I'd hate for someone to miss out on what I had: having Jes Walsh there to support me, look out for me, and care for me and my baby during an incredibly special time. read more