This was the email that I tried to send to Hope Creek, but their email is not receiving any emails...
I think it is important for you to hear my mom's story about her stay at Hope Creek. It is not what we expected, by a long shot. There was no "hope". The care she received was terrible. She came to you with a broken hip and during her stay, broke her other hip and rebroke the original hip. Is this the care that you would hope for your mom or dad? I think not.
Communication about my mom's care was near non-existent. I am out of town and it would often take me 5-6 days to actually reach a nurse at the station to talk to me. When I did reach someone, the information shared was little. There did not seem to be a passion for the caregivers to connect clients with their family members. I spoke with the social worker early on, but subsequent to that contact, I never received return calls to my questions. She seemed very disconnected, uncaring and did not facilitate positive care for my mom.
After a meeting with "key" people, we opted to put my mom on hospice and for her meds to be discontinued. After talking to staff five days later, NOTHING had been put in place. No hospice nurse was visiting; she was still taking all of her meds and her records had not been transferred to the hospice facility.
We transferred my mom to a hospice facility. She arrived with two untreated bed sores. One on her bottom and one on her heel. When they stood her up to weigh her, food fell out of her clothes. Her clothes were dirty. No records from Hope Creek had been transferred. Again, is this the care you would want for your mom or dad? We expected more. Since this is a private facility and we privately paid over $7,000 a month, one would expect quality care. The care we received was what one might expect from a public aide facility, unfortunately.
What can you do? As the director, I hope you can get your hands dirty and weed out the nurses, social worker and caregivers that do not have clients in their best interest. No one wants to place their loved ones in a facility, but it is often needed. Trust is given to love and take care of one's loved ones. This care is not happening at Hope Creek. Compassion needs to be instilled in staff. Diligent care needs to be instilled in staff. Staff needs to treat each client as if they are their parent/grandparent, etc.
I hope you read this and reread this. I hope you read this to staff. I hope that if ever your loved one needs to be placed at a nursing facility that they will be treated with compassion, love and dignity. Unfortunately, my mom did not receive this at Hope Creek.
My heart is broken for my mom. I can't go back in time, but if so, I would have placed her in the hospice facility much earlier so she would receive quality care. read more