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5/26/23
Arlington House...I honestly do not remember it being called this back in 1994-1995. This is when I was a sophomore at The Gow School. This was also around the time Martin Page came out with the song In House Of Stone And Light. The song was stuck in my head the whole time I was visiting Robert E. Lee's house. The song In The House Of Stone And Light had a catchy turn to it. It is why Robert E. Lee stays in my mind when I think of Arlington Cemetery. Funny how music can mark events in your life that are hard to forget.
Speaking about forgetting stuff, it amazed me that I had forgotten General Robert E. Lee had slaves on his estate. How could I have forgotten that? Slavery was very popular back in those times. Hell, it goes farther back then the 1800's. Nevertheless, the working conditions were not good. The Summertime was hot and the Wintertimes were probably worse?
If one got the privilege to work in the Lee House, your clothing atire looked 2 steps above what the other slaves had to wear.
I just read a large segment about how George Washington Parke Custis had slaves, and how they were to be set free after his wife's death. However, they...no...how did he put it?... oh, "While those enslaved to George Washington were emancipated by Martha in 1801, when she died in 1802, those enslaved to the Custis estate went to the Custis heirs, namely, Martha Washington's grandchildren, including Nelly Custis Lewis at Woodlawn plantation in Fairfax County, Virginia; Martha Parke Custis Peter at Tudor Place in Washington, DC; and George Washington Parke Custis at Arlington House." Yeah, I don't see Custis's grandchildren freeing their slaves.
In short, George Washington Parke Custis wanted his slaves freed, but only after his grand children were taken care of and fees were paid off. Sounds like a F.U you to the people who have been enslaved all their life.
As a slave, knowing that your freedom is coming, but then being told you will have to wait for the fees to be paid up first probably...NO, definitely didn't sit well with them.
It didn't take much to be punished if you were a "negro" back then. (One of the words used back then) So running away from your owners (as the law saw it back then) meant harsh punishments would be coming. Robert E. Lee had three slaves whipped for running away. Other slave owners might have done much worse...
Freedom came to the house of Custis, because of the civil war. Some slaves got away during this war, but others stayed on the plantation. When the Civil War ended in 1862, Robert E. Lee freed the slaves to honor the wishes of his father-in-law. I took five years to do this, but it was finally done.
Today, I saw Robert E. Lee in a different light. The statue I saw near the gift shop has the former General Robert E. Lee looking like a former shadow of himself. To me, the figure looked sad, ashamed of choices he made.
Judge him?, I don't like the way slaves were treated, but those were the times Lee was living in and not everyone felt the same like 2021...hell we still have issues that come up at least once a day, but I digress.
Lee/Custis house did not have that warm and inviting feel this time around. Especially after visiting Lee's stone statue house.
I will say the renovation of the estate looks good. The park guard I spoke with said the house/estate has gone through a number of renovations. I like how the house looks pink even from a distance. I was told the painting was matched to how the house looked when it was built. Nicely done.
When I was here last, the Lee house was going to be going under another renovation. I saw there were two more floors and a basement that were blocked off to visitors. I wondered how the upstairs actually looked? I also wondered if they will ever have visitors be able to see the other floors and basement? Guess this might happen next to never.
After seeing the slave quarters and could not imagine the living conditions. I know I would have the right temperament if I were to find myself back in those times. Nevertheless, I found this experience to be more educational than the last time I was there. I look forward to coming back some day. The view from the top of the hill is breathtaking. It is one thing I would have loved to see coming out of the house. Maybe even in the 1800's.
....To Be Concluded in The Tomb Of The Unknown Soldier.