During a weekend stay, I visited the lovely Hay-on-Wye with three others and, whilst wandering around, popped into this curiosities shop. Now, I choose the label 'curiosities' because I personally think it's a bit of a stretch to call a place that sells second-hand quartz watches and faded 90s board games an exclusively 'antiques' shop.
As we were looking around, we noticed an old cast-iron kettle and a *very* heavy old stage weight, both of which had price tags that looked very confusing - either the price of the kettle had a large, unexplained circle after the price on the label... or it was actually £850. When asked, the proprietor of the establishment (who never once put down his newspaper) simply replied "The prices are clearly labelled". Well, obviously not THAT clear if you need to be asked.
Regardless, I spotted a couple of interesting items, including an art-deco style clock and an old Royal typewriter, and I thought they were interesting enough to take photos of to show some other people who might also appreciate them. I took maybe half a dozen photos, and then, just as my companions had left the main shop area and it was just me, alone with the newspaper-wielding proprietor, he said to me "It would have been polite for you to at least ask before you take any photos."
Slightly taken aback and feeling like an idiot, I replied "Sorry, you're right."
"I'd actually prefer it if you didn't take any photos, to be honest." He continued, not acknowledging my apology.
"Right. Sorry, I didn't realise."
"It's just that people have taken photos without asking before, and then put them on the internet, which obviously I don't want - which is what, I assume, you were going to do." He added, refusing to recognise either my first OR second apology, ploughing on regardless, apparently determined to make me feel like an worthless asshole who should be fed to laser-wielding sharks, rather than a person simply taking a picture of a typewriter.
"Okay. Sorry."
At this point I made my exit as quickly as possible, having been made to feel like an absolute prick by the store owner. Clearly 3 apologies for the same thing were not sufficient, and I have to wonder if he actually wanted anyone in his store at all, or he'd simply set the enterprise up as an elaborate front so he could snidely peer at them over his newspaper and chastise them for doing things like pointing at display cases and using their eyes to see.
I understand that, for whatever reason, he obviously DID NOT WANT photos to be taken, or for them to be 'put on the internet' (it's worth noting at this point that the typewriter I took a picture of is currently the first photo that appear on their Facebook page. On the internet.) but maybe he could have made that clearer by putting a sign on the door (which he didn't), or with signs inside the store (which there weren't), rather than wait for me to be alone and chastising me repeatedly for a rule he apparently made up in his head.
There are plenty of lovely stores in Hay-on-Wye; I'd recommend visiting any of them apart from this one. read more