I recently attended the installation of new officers at the Elks Lodge, and while the ceremony was wonderful, my experience afterward left much to be desired. I had taken the time to educate myself on the history of the Elks Lodge and was genuinely excited to explore volunteer opportunities.
When I approached Judy Osgood, former ENF Chairman, I felt honored to speak with her. However, my excitement quickly turned to disappointment. Instead of the welcoming atmosphere I anticipated, I was met with embarrassment in front of a table full of other members. Judy dismissed my inquiries and even suggested that I should "put some clothes on" for my next visit. I was wearing a spring top with ruffle sleeves and jeans.
I want to express my appreciation for the work that the Elks Lodge does in the community, but this encounter was disheartening. I approached the conversation with kindness and an open heart, only to leave feeling upset. It's disheartening to witness such behavior from someone in a leadership position, especially towards someone eager to help.
I hope that future interactions are more positive and that the Elks Lodge continues to foster a welcoming environment for all community members. read more