I am so glad I hired Doula Aileen! She was instrumental in helping me achieve the unmedicated birth of my dreams!!!! Like so many of us, I'd had a difficult first birth and I was determined to have a better experience the second time around. The first time, I thought I'd be bothered by an additional person present, so I didn't get a doula. But this time I knew I would want that comforting presence and words of encouragement. My bf was happy to feel a little less pressure and have a teammate in supporting me in the birthing experience rather than having it be all on him to help me through something as major as childbirth. Doula Aileen met with us as a couple on zoom twice and answered any questions we had, helping us know what to expect in terms of doula services. I really appreciated how down to earth she was. The crunchy world can take itself too seriously, and I absolutely loved Aileen's lighthearted spirit and willingness to support whatever birth preferences I decided upon. I happened to be going for an unmedicated hospital birth, but she came right out and said that even if I were planning an induction or epidural or Caesarian that she would have shown up with the same nonjudgmental support and approval to help me though the special day, which I think is great to have no matter how your birth plays out. I had interviewed a few different doulas, and I was happy to find such a natural fit. I couldn't have asked for more. The day my son was born, I labored at home throughout the afternoon, took a nap and returned to contractions in the evening, and actually got caught up enjoying the birth process, (hard to believe after a tough first birth but it's true) and time flew by! I had been having contractions close together for 3 hours and felt I was close to birth and finally my bf called her to say meet us at the hospital. By then I didn't want to get in the car and I got on the phone and Aileen said "Gina if you want a hospital birth you have to get in the car like now." I needed to hear that! So between waves I got in, and my bf drove, peeled into the parking lot where he double parked. Then I didn't want to get out of the car! But I did and got to triage, which sucked but it helped to know Aileen was on her way there. She arrived just in time for me to be admitted to delivery and for my bf to go move his car. I was delivering on all fours, and I was feeling uncomfortably warm from the mask and hot room and my hair falling forward getting in my face was making it even hotter. Aileen pulled the hair tie I needed out of thin air without me even asking. She helped me with the coconut water my bf brought. She then produced some lavender essential oil and a cool washcloth. Those things were little and yet such a tremendous relief to me! She just intuited what I needed and showed up with it. The doctor told me to flip over onto my back which I was not about to do, and I felt like I had an ally for my autonomy if staff were to get pushy. Baby was born just 2 hours after I arrived. I found out I was only 4cm upon arrival. I had asked in my birth preferences sheet not to be told dilation which was the second smartest thing I ever did in this pregnancy, second only to hiring Aileen. In my first birth I was discouraged by a nurse who told me at 4cm I had 6 hours minimum to go. That was when I had given up and gotten all the drugs last time. This time I had the confidence in myself and a supportive team to get me through, and admittedly this labor was not painful since my water had not broken and baby was in a good position. I'm so glad I had the chance for a natural birth and that Aileen was my doula. Her soothing voice, almost mindreading caretaking gestures, and jovial demeanor were a major source of strength for me and I will forever be grateful. read more