As an event planner of 8+ years and September 2023 bride whose outdoor Pittsburgh wedding was ruined by unexpected bad weather, I know firsthand how absolutely DEVASTATING that is. I was so excited to attend my friend's outdoor wedding at her friend's property on 8/31/24 and hoped more than anything that she had better wedding weather than I did. However, there were severe storms an hour before the ceremony was scheduled to start at 4:00 p.m., and the tents at the original location were completely destroyed by the high winds and were unusable, so there was no way to have the wedding there. The couple scrambled to find an alternative location on such short notice, and thankfully, the local American Legion was able to offer them their basement, which was just a 10-minute drive away. Everyone did their best to work with the unfortunate uncontrollable circumstances--except for DJ Dave. The caterers and photographers migrated to the new location and proceeded with their tasks without a fuss, and friends and family graciously stepped up to help in any way including setting up and decorating the new venue. My friend, the bride, is quite literally the most selfless, positive, understanding person I know, and I know she was just grateful for anything that anyone could do to salvage her big day, so it was appalling at how DJ Dave responded after everything was already not going as she envisioned.
DJ Dave came to the new venue and set up minimal equipment including a single speaker. He did not bring a microphone, which is like the bare minimum expected of a wedding DJ. Therefore, he did not announce anything, and we could not hear the couple's vows or anything that was being said, so sadly the audio was not captured in any videos of their ceremony either. He played a handful of songs (walking down the aisle, first dance, father-daughter dance, and mother-son dance) and then REFUSED TO STAY UNTIL HIS CONTRACTED TIME OF 9:30 P.M. THAT HE WAS ALREADY PAID IN FULL (OVER $2,000) FOR because "it wasn't in his contract to travel to a different venue", which at that point didn't make any sense because he had already come to the new venue and was playing music but decided to leave after an hour and a half of "service" (looking back at the timestamps of the photos I took, the ceremony ended up starting around 5 p.m. and he was gone around 6:30 p.m.). It looked worse that he even came and then left so suddenly in front of over 100 witnesses--we were all SHOCKED. We had cocktail hour and dinner without any music. After dinner, a kind stranger from the bar upstairs heard about the crazy DJ-less situation and offered to come down and help. We were able to find our own speaker to play some music for the rest of the night, but it was of course not the same as having a DJ, so not as many people danced, and many guests ended up leaving early, which was saddening. I asked my friend the name of the DJ company and was flabbergasted to find out not only that she had had a very positive experience with DJ Dave up until the necessary wedding day pivot but also that he had been awarded the Knot's 'Best of Weddings' multiple years including 2024 after what he did to my friend last night.
As someone who organizes a high volume of events for my job, I am well versed that things inevitably go wrong during even the best of events, but never have I witnessed a vendor who straight up did not try to make it through the event, especially a WEDDING. Usually, people in the wedding industry are committed to providing the best service possible on such an important day, but not DJ Dave. Even at my own rained-out wedding, I experienced some issues with the quality of some of my other vendors' services due to the bad weather, and they all took ownership and compensated/made it right accordingly, which redeemed their reputation. My DJ was incredibly solid and even insisted on staying a few minutes late (since we had gotten rain delayed) so we could do our last dance even though we said he totally didn't have to, and he cost us half the price that DJ Dave was paid, so I am just reeling how a "professional" at the TWO THOUSAND DOLLAR+ price point just walked out 3 hours early from a contracted job and provided such an opposite experience in response to a similar situation. Of course things will go wrong in life, but how you handle them shows your true colors, and we were extremely disappointed with DJ Dave's approach. While we are so glad that the bride and groom are happily married, DJ Dave's performance (or lack of) impacted a significant portion of the day, and many of us who were in attendance have been leaving honest reviews accordingly on the Knot, Google, and Facebook, which have been getting deleted, so I'm sure my review will get deleted as well, but I will continue to spread the word of this lackluster experience with DJ Dave to all wedding Facebook groups and my extensive connections in the event industry. Stay away! read more