My mother, on the day of second anniversary of her brother's death, attended the All Soul's Mass at Corpus Christi. A Catholic, though not a member of this parish, she found this mass coincidentally taking place on this day. On a whim, she approached the priest in the rectory right before mass, and asked if he might add her brother's name to the list of remembered people mentioned. He was accompanied by two helpers, and they asked if her brother had been a part of the church. Then they asked if he'd has his funeral through the church. The answer to both, was no, as he lived in Argentina. Their response ended with "this was not the way things are done here," and my mother left. She spent the rest of the service feeling snubbed and hurt, and this is truly unfortunate to have happen in a church. read more