As with everyone else, my experience was so negative I was tempted to sue, as my sister, who is a lawyer, said that there were human rights violations. However, because I am Christian - I did not - primarily because I was told there is already a lawyer who entirely subsists off of suing the facility, with no resultant change, and as the enterprise operates so poorly because the staff are already underpaid and living in spiritual and physical poverty themselves. Empty cups cannot fill.
That said, I wanted to provide some encouragement for those who are trapped there and their families, the same information I was only aware of because my sister is a lawyer. First and foremost - drugs of every imaginable type will be nearly forced upon you 24/7 in a very intimidating way (extreme drugs like antipsychotics for poor night's sleep, etc.) It is very important to know that since your stay is technically voluntary, you are under no legal obligation to take the drugs, so, politely, simply refuse. You are also not under a legal obligation to participate in the liberal classes or any other aspect, and it might be conducive to your mental health to just try to rest in your room and wait for the experience to end. From what I noticed, most people did get out after 5-10 business days, so as unbearable as the experience is, try to remind yourself that their primary motive is to collect on insurance / self interest, and try not to catastrophize. Forgive their deficit of empathy and remember that their poor treatment of you is not a reflection of your worth, but of their distance from God. Where they dishonor, you can honor Him. There's a Bible at the counter and ear plugs; these tools can help protect sanity.
What helped me most is my family coming to the once a week visitation, and helping affirm that "you're not crazy, they're crazy". This was very good to hear from my Harvard doctor sister. This sort of validation is absolutely vital for a person being basically dehumanized and criminalized on a daily basis, because the entire staff is geared to make the person feel insane. Also try to alleviate the situation for your family member on the calls and speak loudly because the phones are intentionally kept at a sub-human volume. They will lie about discharge dates and behave with a culture of ingrained dishonesty, so its important to help your friend remain honest and hopeful when it seems like the entire microcosm of that world operates differently. Keep the encouragement up, and also make sure to hug the person trapped in there because they most likely have no physical contact or positive interactions going on in there, and they might be living for this next interaction with you. Make sure to validate the victim of the facility by helping them to understand that they did not deserve to be treated in the manner they are being treated, and that God will get them out. That's what was most helpful for me.
As far as improving the actual experience in the place, I am not really sure what would help from a legal or financial aspect. I got a meeting with the medical director who actually seemed like a person of integrity, which was astonishing. He informed me that the place is so financially strapped and afraid of legal liabilities that they cannot create basic human rights like outdoor time, adequate exercise, or even prevent the precautionary overprescribing of medication. For this, they blame the laws pertaining to mental health - when everything is potentially a legal liability, even, I guess, providing normal phones (because these could be ripped off the walls and people could hurt others with them), then what is ultimately created is a living chaos for those least likely to be able to defend themselves. This situation is why they cannot effectively coordinate social workers to discharge people in a timely manner, because the social workers cannot deal with the volume of patients to ensure zero liability upon discharge. Given these realities I was sad to admit that probably, if I had zero budget to work with and constant lawsuits, I probably would not be able to create anything better than the horribly chaotic experience I endured.
Jesus strengthened me to endure even this, but, I do pity those who are already on their last leg (70% of the residents I was told were shipped up here from our poorest communities) - who do not have a solid knowledge of God's power, and who are basically going into the worst possible environment without any spiritual support whatsoever. I do feel that collectively, especially for the poor, we bear the responsibility. I invite you to stand in the gap with me in prayer for these victims.
I believe institutions such as this should be shut down, and replaced with Christian care facilities. I don't think anyone benefits from pharmaceuticals, incarceration, and corresponding dehumanization, along with hefty medical bills. What is instead need is investment, love, care, and prayer. Take care. read more