Our daughter started in BIM at 2.5 years old. I vividly remembered how heart-wrenching it was to hear her cry at the top of her voice on the morning of Day 2. Fast forward to today, after 7 months it is exceedingly gratifying to see not only that she is happy to go to BIM in the morning, but also that BIM has "grown" into her and made her flourish beyond our imagination.
The hallmark of early Montessori education is an emphasis on a child's independence and self-reliance. BIM takes this message seriously and makes sure that you do, too. Less than a week in, we had received multiple calls from Saki Sensei about parental tasks that went wrong: putting a button-down shirt on our daughter that she could not take off herself, preparing a lunch box that she could not open herself, giving her shoes that she could not handle herself, etc. No kidding: at BIM, a 2.5-year-old is expected to handle her own clothes, shoes, lunch boxes and a school bag (as well as many other things) all by herself, with teachers guiding verbally on the side but rarely assisting physically. At first, it might seem unbelievably demanding for a child. But soon we realized truly unbelievable was a child's adaptability. From not wanting to hold her own spoon, after BIM our daughter went straight into fastening her own safety belt. She became confident in putting on and taking off her own clothes, and she grew visibly stronger from carrying a school bag of her size every day. And before we knew it, she began to insist on doing things on her own without our interference (save when she did not want to lol).
We are a Mandarin-speaking family with NO Japanese ancestry at all. Admittedly, we worried about being isolated or simply out of place at BIM. But the reality cannot be further from that. From Day 1 we found our daughter welcomed and treated with love by everyone in the BIM community. For our daughter, who is so far the youngest child at BIM, the mixed-age Montessori pedagogy worked magic. The older kids took on leadership role; we often saw that they guided her, explained things to her, mentored her and kept her accompanied when we peeked through the yard fence. We knew things were right when our daughter was thrilled to see her BIM friends on weekend playdates, and believed companionship helped her settle in more than anything else. We are confident she will model herself on the older kids when her turn comes in due time! As a new immigrant family, we also found ourselves welcomed into the BIM community. We made many friends through BIM family gatherings, who despite coming from a vast array of different backgrounds shared something remarkably similar: kindness, openness, down-to-earthiness, genuineness, and an aptitude for a good laugh.
We were impressed by how effortlessly BIM delivered seeming opposites: work and play, academic and fun, rule-boundedness and creativity, concentration and liveliness, discipline and warmth, etc. Our daughter's target language improved dramatically over the course of 7 months. From understanding absolutely nothing she can now say quite a few full sentences in Japanese (it amused us whenever she gave us orders in Japanese, evidently reacting snippets of her daytime experience). Every day, she brought home a new artwork or drawing she created. Wherever we go she was praised by others for being self-sufficient and well-behaved. But just as importantly, we've seen her grown more bubbly: she is more playful, creative, musical, and wild than ever. We could not be happier about the fact that our daughter is learning self-control without sacrificing her nature. In our opinion, BIM brings together the best of multiple cultures, which is what multiculturalism is all about.
To sum up: we highly recommend BIM to any parent who strongly believes in instilling a sense of independence in your child. If you happen to have no Japanese heritage like us, don't let that be an argument against. You can't go wrong with BIM if all you want to see is a well-behaved, self-motivated child who is as happy and free as everyone else and has had a nice dose of exposure to and influence from the Japanese culture. read more