Please stay away from this woman and her classes. An expectant mother should not have to go through the rudeness and hostility that our class experienced. As a couple with a very modest income, we really wish we had not wasted our money on this course. Most of the information covered was basic and introductory, though I like that it helped get us in the mind frame of birth preparation. I also really enjoyed being in a community of expectant mothers. That said, you can gain the preparation easily online or from the books (or another course), and you can seek out other, less negative, environments for mommas-to-be. I don't feel we really learned the hypnobirthing philosophy, and what's worse, we were completely disrespected in the process.
When one of the classes was canceled, we were expecting to have it rescheduled. The instructor went on about being in a good place for the curriculum and not needing a fifth class. I didn't say anything since there were still a couple of classes left, but I knew that I wanted the five classes we had paid for. She then said we would have a fifth class (woo!), then went back and said she could get it all in during an extra hour of the fourth class (boo). At this point I chimed in with my thoughts on having (and deserving) a full fifth class; other mothers I had talked to felt the same way. The instructor did not like that I voiced my concern. Her e-mail response was short. Her attitude during the following class was hostile, rude, and completely unprofessional. I felt attacked and could sense her negativity the whole class. She even put us on the spot for a very stressful, hypothetical birth scenario regarding interventions. What?! I thought that the course was to learn relaxation, breathing, and visualizations of hypnobirthing? As she rolled her eyes and looked annoyed about rescheduling at the end of class, she totally lost it and went on, angrily, about not being a corporation, not being able to handle the demands of kids, clients, etc. She silenced me when I tried to address my concern for how upset she seemed. Another mother even said "Umm, we're not angry with you. We just want a fifth class." It was uncalled for, all we wanted was a class rescheduled. I left feeling shocked, hurt, and disrespected. Another mother asked to call me since she was also left a little traumatized by this woman.
Although the instructor may be going through some difficult times, it is never an excuse to be so mean, unprofessional, and act so hateful towards another individual, especially an expectant mother! I let the group know in a short e-mail that I wasn't going to attend the last class so as not to put myself or the baby in such a negative environment. She emailed me in a very rude, passive aggressive tone. I responded that she had no right to treat us the way she did and that I hope she finds her path again. If she is not in a good place to teach this course, she really should not be teaching it.
Please do yourself a favor and find another birth preparation class, we really wish we had. I don't usually write these, but I felt the need to, so that other mommas don't experience what we experienced. Take care of yourselves and surround yourselves with love and light...not this course and instructor. read more